My Butterfly: What is friendship between women – what is it worth?
Can you really actually value the support, trust, honesty, wisdom and advice that comes from someone who is completely on your side?
Who knows and understands you at the very deepest level, and loves you for who you are?
Feeling like a bitch for wanting to know how to end a friendship?
Want to know how you can end it without hurting the other person?
Wondering if, with your social anxiety, you will notice a massive hole in your life and whether you will make new friends to fill that void?
It should be fairly simple, shouldn’t it, my Butterfly?
I mean, how to be a good friend should be a fairly straightforward thing.
Most people just think, “How would I like to be treated?” and then do that.
But the thing is: Not everyone needs the same thing at the same time.
And there will be times when you are definitely at a loss about what is the right thing to do or say, or whether doing or saying ANYTHING is the right thing at all…
Are you feeling lonely out of nowhere, my Butterfly?
Or is this something that has been building up over time?
Is “I need friends” creeping into your thoughts, more and more regularly?
It’s probably a bit of all of these things if you’re honest – it’s been building up slowly over time due to social anxiety but it’s only now that your loneliness has reached critical mass so you notice it enough for it to really affect you.
The first thing to note is, that this loneliness has nothing to do with YOU fundamentally, as a person.